Bachon ki tarbiyat ajki achi baat ajki achi baat

Bachon ki tarbiyat ajki achi baat

 

Bachon ki tarbiyat ek aham aur mushkil kaam hai jo har waldain ko anjaam dena chahiye. Bachon ki tarbiyat ka maqsad unhein deeni, dunyawi, akhlaqi aur jismani tor par taraqqi yafta, mustaqil, zimmedar aur naik insan banane ka hai.ajki achi baat mn Bachon ki tarbiyat ke liye kuch bunyadi usool jo is article mein bataye jayenge.

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1. Bachon ko pyar aur tawajju se pala jaye.

Bachon ko unki khubiyan aur kamyabiyan par tareef karein aur unki ghaltiyon aur kamzoriyon par narmi aur hikmat se naseehat karein. Bachon ko apni baaton aur amaal se acha akhlaq aur adab seekhayein aur unse bura akhlaq aur badtameezi bardasht na karein. Bachon ko apne waldain, ustaad, buzurg, rishtedaar aur dosron se izzat aur muhabbat ka salook sikhayein. [Mufti Tariq Masood]ne bachon ki tarbiyat ke bare mein kaha hai ke "Bachon ko pyar se samjhana chahiye, unko dantna aur marna nahi chahiye. Bachon ko apne waldain ki izzat aur farmanbardari ka ehsas dilana chahiye, unko zid aur na-farmani se rokna chahiye."

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2. Bachon ko deen ki taleem aur tarbiyat de.

Bachon ko Quran aur hadees ki taleem de aur unko namaz, roza, zakat, hajj aur dosre ibadaat ka tariqa aur ahmiyat batayein. Bachon ko deen ki ahkam aur masail se aagah karein aur unko halal aur haram, jaiz aur najayiz, sunnat aur bidat, iman aur kufr, tawheed aur shirk, taqwa aur gunah, jannat aur jahannum ke bare mein samjhayein. Bachon ko deen ki dawat aur islah ka kaam karne ki himmat aur jazba de aur unko deen ke liye qurbani aur jihad se na ghabrayein. [Bachon Ki Tarbiyat Aur Mayari Maktab Kay Rahnuma Usool]mein likha hai ke "Bachon ko deen ki taleem aur tarbiyat ka behtareen zariya maktab hai. Maktab mein bachon ko Quran, hadees, fiqh, aqeedah, seerat, tareekh, adab aur dosre ilm-o-funoon ki taleem di jati hai. Maktab mein bachon ko deen ki amali zindagi aur deen ki khidmat ka tajurba milta hai. Maktab mein bachon ko deen ki muhabbat aur deen ki izzat ka ehsas hota hai."²

3. Bachon ko dunyawi taleem aur hunar de.

Bachon ko apni salahiyat, shoq aur zaroorat ke mutabiq dunyawi taleem aur hunar hasil karne ki sahulat aur hidayat de. Bachon ko ilm-e-aqli, ilm-e-nazari, ilm-e-amali, ilm-e-fanni, ilm-e-lisani, ilm-e-riyazi, ilm-e-tabii, ilm-e-samaji, ilm-e-tibbi, ilm-e-falsafi, ilm-e-adabi, ilm-e-funoon aur dosre ilm-o-funoon ki taleem de. Bachon ko apne mustaqbil ke liye ek behtareen aur munasib pesha chunne ki rehnumai de. Bachon ko dunyawi taleem aur hunar ke sath sath deen ki taleem aur tarbiyat ka bhi ahmiyat batayein aur unko deen aur dunya ke darmiyan tawazun rakhne ki talqeen karein. [Bachon Ki Tarbiyat] mein likha hai ke "Bachon ko dunyawi taleem aur hunar dekar unko apne aap ko dunya mein qabil aur mufeed banane ka moqa de. Bachon ko dunyawi taleem aur hunar se sirf dunya ki kamyabi aur khushhali nahi, balki akhirat ki bhi kamyabi aur khushhali hasil hogi. Bachon ko dunyawi taleem aur hunar se unke zehan aur dil mein ilm aur hikmat, aqal aur danish, fikr aur amal, tajurba aur tadbeer, himmat aur hosla, khalq aur khuluq, adalat aur insaf, shujaat aur sakhawat, ehtiram aur ehsan, khidmat aur mohabbat, taqwa aur sabr, shukr aur raza, zikr aur dua, ibadat aur shukriya, jannat aur jahannum ka noor paida hoga."

4. Bachon ko jismani aur roohani sehat aur tandurusti de.

Bachon ko sahi aur muzun ghiza, pani, hawa, roshni, kapre, rehaish, safai, tandurusti, ilaj, dawa, warzish, khel, tafreeh, aram, neend, uthna, sona, khana, peena, chalna, bolna, sunna, dekhna, sochna, mehsoos karna, karna, kuch na karna aur dosre jismani aur roohani zarooriyat aur sahuliyat de. Bachon ko jismani aur roohani bimariyon, nuqsanat, afaat, fitnon, fasadon, buraion, gunahon, sharron, dushmanon, khofon, ghamon, pareshaniyon, mushkilon, azmaishon, imtehanon aur dosre jismani aur roohani takaleefon se bachane ki hifazat aur madad karein. Bachon ko jismani aur roohani sehat aur tandurusti ke liye Allah ki raza, shukr, dua, zikr, sabr, raza, tawakkul, tawba, istighfar, sadqa, khairat, ziyarat, umrah, hajj, jihad, dawat, islah, khidmat, ehsan, muhabbat, dosti, bhai chara, salam, musafah, tabassum, adaab, akhlaq, adab, ilm, hikmat, aqal, danish, fikr, amal, tajurba, tadbeer, himmat, hosla, khalq, khuluq, adalat, insaf, shujaat, sakhawat, ehtiram, taqwa, jannat aur jahannum ki taleem aur tarbiyat de. [Mufti Tariq Masood] ne bachon ki jismani aur roohani sehat aur tandurusti ke bare mein kaha hai ke "Bachon ko jismani aur roohani sehat aur tandurusti ka khayal rakhna chahiye. Bachon ko sahi waqt par khana, peena, sona, uthna, warzish, khelna, parhna, likhna, bolna, sunna, dekhna, sochna, karna aur kuch na karna sikhana chahiye. Bachon ko jismani aur roohani bimariyon se bachane ke liye unko namaz, roza, zakat, hajj, sadqa, khairat, dua, zikr, istighfar, tawba, tawakkul, sabr, raza, shukr, taqwa, jannat aur jahannum ki yaad dilana chahiye."

Natija Bachon ki tarbiyat ajki achi baat

Bachon ki tarbiyat ek azeem aur aali kaam hai jo har waldain ka farz aur zimma hai. Bachon ki tarbiyat se waldain ko dunya aur akhirat mein bhi sawab aur khair hasil hoga. Bachon ki tarbiyat se waldain ko Allah ki raza, rehmat, maghfirat, nusrat, inayat, karam, fazl, ehsan, muhabbat, dosti, qurbat, maqbooliyat, martabat, izzat, sharaf, karamat, wilayat, shafaat, jannatawajju, tawazun, hamdardi, dosti, bhai chara, salam, musafah, tabassum, adaab, akhlaq, adab, ilm, hikmat, aqal, danish, fikr, amal, tajurba, tadbeer, himmat, hosla, khalq, khuluq, adalat, insaf, shujaat, sakhawat, ehtiram, taqwa, jannat aur jahannum ki yaad ka sabab ban sakta hai. [Bachon Ki Tarbiyat] mein likha hai ke “Waldain ka apne bachon se dostana aur hamdardi ka salook bachon ki tarbiyat ka ahem tareen juz hai. Waldain ka apne bachon se dostana aur hamdardi ka salook se bachon ki tarbiyat mein khushi, rahat, barkat, taraqqi, kamyabi, khushhali, azmat, shohrat, karamat, wilayat, shafaat, jannat aur jahannum ki yaad hoti hai. Waldain ka apne bachon se sakhti aur tana se bachon ki tarbiyat mein gham, takleef, nuqsan, nakami, pareshani, azmaish, imtehan aur dosre jismani aur roohani takaleefon ka darwaza khul jata hai.” 

ajki achi baat mn hm na Bachon ki tarbiyat ka hawaly sa baat ki umeed krta hon apko hmara ya article pasand aya ho ga.