ziddi bachon ka Wazifa ziddi bachon k lia dua

 ziddi bachon ka Wazifa ziddi bachon k lia dua

ziddi bachon se islami tareeqay se kaisay nimta jaye

Bachay Allah ki taraf se Nemat hain, lekin baaz auqaat woh bohat ziddi aur nafarman bhi ho satke hain. woh –apne walidain, usaatzaa ya buzurgon ki baat nahi sun sakte aur museebat aur fasaad ka baais ban sakte hain. yeh walidain ke liye bohat mayoos kun aur dabao ka baais ho sakta hai, jo chahtay hain ke un ke bachon ke sath acha bartao aur ehtram kya jaye. walidain islami tareeqay se aisy ziddi bachon ( ziddi bachon ) se kaisay nimat satke hain ?

bohat se wazaif ( namaz ) aur duaen  hain jo walidain –apne bachon ki parwarish mein Allah ki madad aur rahnumai haasil karne ke liye parh satke hain. yeh wazaif aur duaen bachon ke dilon ko naram karne, inhen farmanbardar aur izzat dainay aur buray asraat se bachanay mein madad kar satke hain. yahan kuch wazaif aur duaen hain jo walidain –apne ziddi bachon ke liye parh satke hain :

- ya shahido  : yeh Allah ka aik taaqatwar naam hai jis ka matlab hai" gawah ". walidain tulu aftaab se pehlay 21 baar yeh naam parh satke hain, jabkay bachay ke maathey par haath rakh kar aur aasman ki taraf mun kar satke hain. is se bachay ko farmanbardar aur tameel karne mein madad mil sakti hai.

surah fatiha : yeh quran ka pehla baab hai, aur usay" kitaab ki maa" ke naam se bhi jana jata hai ". saat ayaton par mushtamil hai jo Allah ki hamd karti hain, is ki rahnumai haasil karti hain aur is ki rehmat ki darkhwast karti hain. walidain har namaz ke baad saat martaba is sourat ki tilawat kar satke hain aur bachay par ya kisi pani par phoonk maar kar bachay ko peenay par majboor kar satke hain. is se bachay ko nazar bad, shetan aur buri aadaat se bachanay mein madad mil sakti hai.

surah Al luqman : yeh quran ka 31 wahn baab , aur is mein 34 ayaat hain jo luqman ki kahani bayan karti hain, aik aqalmand aadmi jis ne –apne betay ko mahswara diya. surah Allah ki ibadat karne, shukar guzaar honay, aajiz honay, meharban honay aur shirk se bachney ki ahmiyat sikhati hai. walidain har roz is sourat ki tilawat kar satke hain aur –apne bachon ko is ki baat sun sakte hain ya un ke sath parh sakte hain. is se bachon mein achay ikhlaq aur eqdaar peda karne mein madad mil sakti hai, aur inhen luqman aur is ke betay ki misaal par amal karne mein madad mil sakti hai.

zaidi bachon se nimatnay ke liye walidain ke liye kuch aur tajaweez yeh hain :

sabr aur pursukoon raho :

walidain ko apna gussa nahi khona chahiye ya ziddi bachon se nimatnay ke douran sakht alfaaz ya jismani saza ka sahara nahi lena chahiye. yeh sirf sorat e haal ko mazeed kharab kar sakta hai aur walidain aur bachay ke darmiyan taluqaat ko nuqsaan pouncha sakta hai. is ke bajaye, walidain ko sabr aur pursukoon hona chahiye, aur bachay ke ravayye ke peechay ki wajah ko samajhney ki koshish karen. inhen bachay ke sath ehtram aur mohabbat bharay andaaz mein baat cheet karne aur un ke khadshaat aur ehsasat ko suneney ki bhi koshish karni chahiye .

wazeh qawaid o zawabit muqarrar karen :

walidain ko –apne bachon ke liye wazeh qawaid aur hudood muqarrar karna chahiye, aur un ke tornay ke nataij ki wazahat karna chahiye. woh qawaneen aur hudood ko nafiz karne mein bhi mustaqil aur mazboot hona chahiye, aur bachay ke ghusse ya mutalibaat ko tasleem nahi karna chahiye. inhen chahiye ke woh bachay ko qawaid o zawabit par amal karne par bhi inaam den, aur un ke achay bartao ke liye un ki tareef karen .

faisla saazi mein bachay ko shaamil karen :

walidain ko faisla saazi mein bachay ko shaamil karna chahiye, aur inhen kuch intikhab aur ikhtiyarat dena chahiye. is se bachay ko qabil qader aur qabil ehtram mehsoos karne mein madad mil sakti hai, aur inhen zimma daari aur jawab dahi bhi sikhayi ja sakti hai. walidain ko bhi bachay ki raye aur tarjeehat ka ehtram karna chahiye, aur un par apni marzi musallat nahi karna chahiye. taham, walidain ko bhi bachay ko achay aur danish mandana faislay karne ki rahnumai karni chahiye, aur inhen jo chahain karne nahi dena chahiye .

bachay ke sath miyaar ka waqt kharch karen :

walidain ko bachay ke sath mayaari waqt guzaarna chahiye, aur inhen pyar aur tawajah dikhnana chahiye. inhen bachay ke sath tafrehi aur taleemi sar garmion mein bhi mashgool hona chahiye, aur un ki salahiyaton aur dilchaspion ki hosla afzai karni chahiye. inhen bachay ke sath dua bhi karni chahiye, aur inhen islam aur is ki talemaat ke baray mein sikhana chahiye. is se walidain aur bachay ke darmiyan taluqaat ko mazboot bananay mein madad mil sakti hai, aur bachay mein imaan aur eqdaar ko bhi farogh mil sakta hai .

yahan mazmoon ka ekhtataam hai jo mein ne aap ke liye likha hai :

zidi bachon ka Wazifa : ziddi bachon se islami tareeqay se kaisay nimta jaye

AAkhir mein, ziddi bachon ( ziddi bachay ) walidain ke liye aik challenge ho satke hain, lekin woh khushi aur khushi ka baais bhi ho satke hain. walidain –apne bachon ki parwarish mein Allah ki madad aur rahnumai haasil kar satke hain, mukhtalif wazay ( namaz ) aur dua ( naib ) parh kar jo bachon ko farmanbardar, izzat aur naik bana satke hain. walidain bhi –apne bachon ke liye achay rule model ban'nay ki koshish kar satke hain, aur unhein quran aur sunnat nabi ki taleem day satke hain ( un par salamti ho ). walidain ziddi bachon se nimatnay ke liye kuch amli nakaat bhi istemaal kar satke hain, jaisay ke sabr aur pursukoon rehna, wazeh usool aur hudood tay karna, bachay ko faisla saazi mein shaamil karna, aur bachay ke sath mayaari waqt guzaarna. aisa karne se, walidain –apne bachon ki islami tareeqay se parwarish karne aur inhen mutaqeon ke liye aik misaal bananay ki umeed kar satke hain. Allah taala tamam walidain aur un ki aulaad ko barket day aur inhen jannat ( jannat ) ke bashindon mein shaamil kere. ameeen .